Cicero (on the Stoics) · 106–43 BCE
On Duties 1.137 — Cicero (on the Stoics)
Translation by Walter Miller (1913)
Cicero (on the Stoics), On Duties 1.137
In most cases, we may apply a mild reproof, so combined, however, with earnestness, that, while severity is shown, offensive language is avoided. Nay more, we must show clearly that even that very harshness which goes with our reproof is designed for the good of the person reproved. The right course, moreover, even in our differences with our bitterest enemies, is to maintain our dignity and to repress our anger, even though we are treated outrageously. For what is done under some degree of excitement cannot be done with perfect self-respect or the approval of those who witness it. It is bad taste also to talk about oneself—especially if what one says is not true—and, amid the derision of one's hearers, to play "The Braggart Captain."
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Cicero (on the Stoics), On Duties 1.137, tr. Walter Miller (1913)
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Cicero, On Duties (De Officiis), tr. Walter Miller (Loeb, 1913). Text: Perseus Digital Library (CC BY-SA 4.0). Sources and licences
In plain English
AI-written notesPrefer mild but earnest criticism and make clear that any firmness is meant for the other person's good. Even with your worst enemies, keep your dignity and hold back anger, because acts done in a heated state lack self-respect. Boasting about yourself, especially untruthfully, just invites mockery.
Older wording
- “reproof”
- — a rebuke or criticism
- “derision”
- — mockery and ridicule
- “Braggart Captain”
- — the boastful soldier, a stock character in Roman comedy
Themes and situations
- Anger
- Kindness and forgiveness
- Pride and humility
- Speech and silence
- Self-discipline and habit
- Being angry with someone
- Conflict at work
- Leading others
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